Trust is Expensive
August 22, 2014

Trust is destroyed at our wives’ expense, trust is rebuilt at our expense. There is no other way. If you want to rebuild trust in your relationship you have to accept and adopt this simple truth. If you expect your…Read More

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Exoneration or Empathy
August 22, 2014

How do you handle conversations when your wife is triggered… When our wife is asking us questions it can often feel like an interrogation or cross-examination. Once we’re on the witness stand, we can easily adopt a defensive posture, where…Read More

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Deleting Internet History
August 5, 2014

I just came across this news article about digital detectives and thought of the repercussions for people struggling with sexual integrity issues. The reality is what we do on our computers and phones is logged, archived, and retrievable, regardless whether…Read More

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Accountability Phone Calls
August 1, 2014

Did you know that phone calls lead to sexual integrity? You see, there is something special that begins to happen when we make daily phone calls to other men who understand our struggle. First, we begin to develop connection and…Read More

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