Measuring Progress
October 5, 2016

A common question I get from men in the recovery process is, “I’m not acting out, so how can I show my wife I’m making progress?”   To which I usually follow with a question, “How do you know when you’re…Read More

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Courageous Men
September 7, 2016

I’ve talked to some courageous men lately. If you do a little Bible homework, you’ll find courage/courageous used more than 50 different ways. It speaks of the wind, the heart, stones, the will, rationality, and boldness to face fear. What…Read More

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Sexualize v. Angerize
August 18, 2016

I haven’t looked to see if that’s actually a word. If not, I made it up. I wanted to take a minute to talk about angerizing emotions. For men who struggle with sexual integrity issues, there are usually 2 ways…Read More

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Every Mans Battle Workshop – Opening Session
August 5, 2016

We just finished the first session at another EMB Workshop and I feel super encouraged. The reason is I just saw almost 70 men face their shame. They walked through the doors of the hotel into an awkward, unknown experience….Read More

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Fire your CEO
July 25, 2016

Crazy…this post is actually from 2012. Its comical how applicable it is today! My, how some things never change. Lately I’ve been reminded that I’m not the best CEO of my life. Seriously, I don’t manage my life very well….Read More

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A gameplan to stop gawking
July 8, 2016

To leave it behind has a finality to it that I don’t want to misrepresent. It is an ongoing work, NOT a one-and-done change that happens. And the reason I think is because it is so much more than a…Read More

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4 Realities of Lustful Looking
May 24, 2016

Lustful looking is so tacky, isn’t it? You know when you see guys oogling some woman or  guy up and down how repulsive it is. And most of us know the feeling of being that guy too. But beyond that,…Read More

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Truly, truly I tell you
May 8, 2016

We all know telling the truth is a biblical imperative. Yet it seems like so many men struggling with sexual integrity issues have amnesia with respect to it. Telling a lie has become second nature to so many of us,…Read More

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Your Sunday is Coming
April 22, 2016

I wonder what it must have been like as a 1st generation follower of Christ? To spend a few years doing life with him, everyday, hanging your hat on his words, then only to see him killed. Sure he talked…Read More

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Biblical Brain Change
March 6, 2016

I am often asked about the brain chemistry behind sexual addiction. While it would take a book to cover the topic adequately (and there is a great one I’ll mention at the end of the post), we can bring it…Read More

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