Same Shame, Different Day
April 21, 2015

Sex addicts are on shame overload. Men who struggle with sexual integrity issues are carrying around tons of shame and it is practically unbearable. In fact for some, the weight is unbearable, thus they off-load it onto other people. If…Read More

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Submitting Ourselves
March 8, 2015

Submission isn’t a word we like to use very often. Especially not us men. The truth is, I’m not the best CEO of my life. So I need someone to guide me; on their terms, not mine. Think about it:…Read More

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Self Reliant Resolutions
February 6, 2015

By now, many folks who made a “No More Porn” new year’s resolution have found their resolve beginning to wane. There is only so long someone can white-knuckle it, hanging on for dear life by their will alone. If you…Read More

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The Crane Game
March 20, 2014

I was talking with a client about God and Christianity recently and, while describing his journey, he used this analogy: “Believing in and trusting God is like playing one of those crane games at the arcade. The game is rigged…Read More

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Running from Wreckage to Redemption
June 15, 2012

This week during one of my recovery groups we were privileged to share a profound moment with one of the members. It was his last day of being 49 years old. He was on the verge of 50 and had…Read More

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