Getting out of Passivity
April 11, 2018

I want to address the issue of passivity in recovery. Passivity is painful. Should I say, it is painful to watch. And it’s painful to the people who long for you to be proactive. A lot of times I don’t…Read More

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Courageous Men
September 7, 2016

I’ve talked to some courageous men lately. If you do a little Bible homework, you’ll find courage/courageous used more than 50 different ways. It speaks of the wind, the heart, stones, the will, rationality, and boldness to face fear. What…Read More

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Sexualize v. Angerize
August 18, 2016

I haven’t looked to see if that’s actually a word. If not, I made it up. I wanted to take a minute to talk about angerizing emotions. For men who struggle with sexual integrity issues, there are usually 2 ways…Read More

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Every Mans Battle Workshop – Opening Session
August 5, 2016

We just finished the first session at another EMB Workshop and I feel super encouraged. The reason is I just saw almost 70 men face their shame. They walked through the doors of the hotel into an awkward, unknown experience….Read More

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Fire your CEO
July 25, 2016

Crazy…this post is actually from 2012. Its comical how applicable it is today! My, how some things never change. Lately I’ve been reminded that I’m not the best CEO of my life. Seriously, I don’t manage my life very well….Read More

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A gameplan to stop gawking
July 8, 2016

To leave it behind has a finality to it that I don’t want to misrepresent. It is an ongoing work, NOT a one-and-done change that happens. And the reason I think is because it is so much more than a…Read More

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Biblical Brain Change
March 6, 2016

I am often asked about the brain chemistry behind sexual addiction. While it would take a book to cover the topic adequately (and there is a great one I’ll mention at the end of the post), we can bring it…Read More

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Addiction Arcade
November 5, 2015

Do you remember the old ‘whac-a-mole’ arcade games. I don’t know if they are around anymore. It was a frustrating game. You never knew where the next mole would pop up. By the time you could swat one with the…Read More

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Recovery FedEx
July 5, 2015

Some people think of God as the FedEx of recovery. Like He’ll swing by one day and drop off a package of healing at the door step, then jump back in the truck and speed away. Problems solved. Struggle over….Read More

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Addiction and Adventure
March 2, 2015

Men and Adventure. Like peanut butter and jelly, the two just go together. It is hard-wired in our DNA as men to be risk takers and adventure seekers. Did you know that for some guys it is a primary driver…Read More

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