Truly, truly I tell you
May 8, 2016

We all know telling the truth is a biblical imperative. Yet it seems like so many men struggling with sexual integrity issues have amnesia with respect to it. Telling a lie has become second nature to so many of us,…Read More

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Your Sunday is Coming
April 22, 2016

I wonder what it must have been like as a 1st generation follower of Christ? To spend a few years doing life with him, everyday, hanging your hat on his words, then only to see him killed. Sure he talked…Read More

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Biblical Brain Change
March 6, 2016

I am often asked about the brain chemistry behind sexual addiction. While it would take a book to cover the topic adequately (and there is a great one I’ll mention at the end of the post), we can bring it…Read More

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Make Way for Radiance
January 11, 2016

Several months ago I was doing a visualization exercise with one of my groups when I had a vivid picture pop into my mind. It looked like this:    Along with the picture came a profound (to me) take on…Read More

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Recovery Roadtrip
November 7, 2015

If you have or had small kids and you took a road trip, you can probably hear those little voices in your head asking, “are we there yet? Are we there yet?” On the one hand so cute, on the…Read More

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Addiction Arcade
November 5, 2015

Do you remember the old ‘whac-a-mole’ arcade games. I don’t know if they are around anymore. It was a frustrating game. You never knew where the next mole would pop up. By the time you could swat one with the…Read More

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Power of a Wife’s Words
October 5, 2015

Words cannot describe how sweet it is for a husband to hear his wife say he is being the leader, man, father and husband she has always wanted. It is something profound and beyond comprehension. I watched it happen this…Read More

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Recovery FedEx
July 5, 2015

Some people think of God as the FedEx of recovery. Like He’ll swing by one day and drop off a package of healing at the door step, then jump back in the truck and speed away. Problems solved. Struggle over….Read More

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80/20 Rule
June 11, 2015

This is a repost of a previous entry I did on the Every Mans Battle blog. So true, and so applicable today. There are several consistent themes among men struggling with sexual integrity issues. One of those is the 80/20…Read More

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Same Shame, Different Day
April 21, 2015

Sex addicts are on shame overload. Men who struggle with sexual integrity issues are carrying around tons of shame and it is practically unbearable. In fact for some, the weight is unbearable, thus they off-load it onto other people. If…Read More

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