Let’s see if we can help!

First, we’ll ask for some info via questionnaire. Once we receive your questionnaire, we’ll reach out to schedule a consult call. Plan for the consult call to last about 45 minutes. We’ll talk through your situation and see if we’re a good fit to help. It is incredibly important that the person helping you is a good fit, that you connect with them, trust them and have a good rapport with them. Likewise, as coaches, it is important to us that you as a client are a good fit. This helps to ensure the success of our work together. Please complete the questionnaire for your situation:

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Singles Questionnaire

If you are single, please fill complete this questionnaire.

Couples Questionnaire

If you are married, please both complete this questionnaire. If you are looking for help for yourself and your spouse isn’t interested in joining a consult call, we still would appreciate their input on the questionnaire, if they are willing.

While you are waiting for the consult call, there is plenty to do and no shortage of steps to take!

If you haven’t watched the videos on the website, we encourage you to do that. Especially start with the first 3. You can find those here:

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If you haven’t listened to other episodes from the podcast, again we encourage you to do so. Those are available below or wherever you listen to podcasts.

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Also, anyone waiting can benefit from the RL Academy - our membership site with access to additional teaching videos, tools and office hours each week with our staff. You can check out the Academy here:

Finally, we highly recommend husbands take the Masterclasses. They run every month, are taught live, and are specialized by topic. More info on those is available here:

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OR….if you just have a quick question for us, we’re happy to try and answer! Just fill in the form and we’ll get back to you asap.

If you need the basics of understanding what drives the acting out, identity, shame, intimacy aversion and effective accountability, this is for you.

If you need to learn or upgrade empathy, how to engage your emotions and communicate compassion, this is the class for you.

If you want to understand why intimacy and connection is so difficult, what drives our withdrawing from relationships, and what keeps us locked into disconnection, take this class.