Handling Her Triggers

Masterclass for Men

When our wives are triggered, it can feel like a tidal wave of emotion. Unfortunately our response is often:

  • ANGER

  • DEFENSIVENESS

  • SHAME

  • EXCUSES OR EXPLANATIONS

  • LOW ENERGY

  • SHUTDOWN

  • DISMISSIVENESS

  • JUST PLAIN MEAN

But the truth is we don't actually want to respond that way.

Most of us desperately want to help our wives in those moments. And if we're honest, most of us aren't really sure what to do.

On top of all that...

It can feel like it’s a constantly moving target.

Like the bar is just too high and we don't have what she needs.

Too often it seems like we make things worse not better.

And that leaves many of us feeling like a perpetual failure and disappointment.

I want you to feel connected, prepared and empowered to help when she's triggered!

We have to remember that every trigger is an opportunity for healing.

We’ll help you learn:

DISCLAIMER

 There are no quick-fixes. Handling triggers is a delicate and deliberate endeavor. We’ll help you understand triggers and give you practical tools to help. But you have to do the work!

When is it?

The class is a 4-week commitment that meets on all of the following dates:

  • Tuesday December 3rd 2024 | 5:15pm-6:30pm CST

  • Tuesday December 10th 2024 | 5:15pm-6:30pm CST

  • Tuesday December 17th 2024 | 5:15pm-6:30pm CST

  • Tuesday January 7th 2024 | 5:15pm-6:30pm CST

Who is it for?

Men committed to helping their wives heal when triggering happens. These classes are interactive from the moment the clock starts! Be prepared to engage, interact and talk about how the concepts apply to your situation.

How is it hosted?

Live Webinar

This means you’ll need to be sitting in front of your computer/tablet/device (ideally not a phone because it will be too difficult to see the diagrams), with audio and video enabled, free from distraction or other commitments. This is not a “call in and listen” situation, where you can participate on your commute or while engaged in other activities.  

What’s expected of you:

  • Complete the homework assigned

  • Engage with a willing heart and be open to a different point of view on Intimacy

What’s expected of us:

  • Employing a No Shame Zone: everyone is safe to share without judgement

  • Teaching you what you need to know and not a bunch of extra overwhelming information

  • Give you tools for practical application

  • To the best of our ability, nuance the concepts to fit your unique situation

Investment

$500

Privacy & Confidentiality: The classes are educational, group events. I cannot guarantee your privacy or confidentiality during this class. While you will have control over your camera and can determine whether anyone will see you, they will hear your voice and see your first name. You understand that participating in the class is at your own risk.

Who is teaching?

Meet Thomas Berry, RLCC

In 2012, after a decade of marriage, a successful career, two children with another on the way my double life of sexual addiction came to light. I was out of control. The process of finding freedom instantly became the fight of and for my life. Now, 8 years after being found out, I am celebrating a life and marriage better than I could have ever imagined; built on the foundation of Jesus, with an awakened heart and pursuit of integrity. For the past several years, I have been walking with other men helping them along their journey towards sexual integrity. I work full time as a Redemptive Living Certified Coach and also have been in a pastoral role at Grace Fellowship in Paducah, KY for the past two years. I’m committed to helping other men who have struggled with sexual integrity issues live the life God intended through doing the hard work of recovery.

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